Monday, June 18, 2007

my foreign friend

I drop by on the site just for the fun of it.

But never could have anticipated I found a friend on the net.

He thinks most of the Filipinas aims to find a rich foreign husband through the internet.And I'm sure he tried to label me as one of them.

I don't have to prove him right or wrong about that. Most of us though have some ulterior motives as to why we are chatting; and sad to say and though hard to admit, money always goes with finding a foreign partner.

I work. For my self and for my family. Finding a lifetime partner is not on the top of my list of priorities. I tried to live life to the fullest though I'm often short on most things but still I enjoy life. I take everything as a challenge. Taking the ups and downs as it comes.

But chatting with a foreign man made sense of the idea there's more to chatting than finding a rich husband on the net. Friendship to foreign people can be develop without the other thinking that one day it will end up with more than anything else. How so?

My foreign friend thinks I will have to find another husband to catch. Ouch! Couldn't I just chat without the other person thinking that I want him to be my husband?Well, anyway, I think I prove him wrong on that. We still chat...romantic...friendly...general topics...depends on the mood...and him with a girl on his own. See? Does it looks like, I wanted catch him and wanted him to be mine?

I need to find a husband. My friends did always remind me that. I'm not getting any younger. But on the net? Sure! If I found him, may be. Through chatting? Well....maybe..but I have to tell him directly that so we'll know where we stand. Filipinas are loving and surely are sweet. A wife material I should say. Though mostly associated with "finding a foreign husband for money", most are willing to go beyond and love the person they choose to the fullest.

Can chatting leads to loving then? Possibly. But who ever does not love a friend? Nobody, I guess..